I find this quite sad, because as a society we've been convinced that such a thing actually exists. "The perfect figure". That one look that everyone should be striving for. The one look that once achieved, will bring you happiness.
Quick question, If there is such a thing as a "perfect figure" why are we as humans so physically different from each other? Also, Why didnt God (or whatever higher being you might believe in) know about this 'perfect figure' when he created us.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying go to your nearest Mcdonalds and sign up for a membership card. What I am saying though is that perfection is unique to each individual.
Lets break down the phrase: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder for a quick minute.
- The phrase beauty is in the eye of the beholder, means that someone can be beautiful based on the person that is seeing it. It means that each person sees beauty in there own unique way.
- Beauty is subjective.
Another myth we seem to have convinced ourselves of is that if we don't have this "perfect" figure...It makes it so much harder to find someone to start a relationship with.
FALSE!!
There is someone out there for everyone. Sometimes we first have to end up with the wrong fit (maybe even a few times) to set you on the path to finding your perfect match...your nirvana..That's all part of the learning process.
You just have to be smart enough to know when to stop altering your genetic make up to become someone else's perfect...And trust me...you'll find someone that will love you for everything you are today...
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