Sex...

Now this is not going to be some sleazy sex story I promise, but more of an insight if I can call it that. A learning opportunity. Now you may feel that whatever I'm about to say doesn't apply to you, but the first mistake you're probably making is being so sure you know everything there is to know about sex.

What you probably don't know is that when it comes to sex, its not so much about the physical act as it is about being able to arouse someone mentally and spiritually before the act of sex actually commences. Sex in itself is nothing but a follow-through on a promise you made, be it by eye contact, touch, or a sweet whisper in your ear that sent shivers down your spine.
Something as simple as staring into someone's eyes, says volumes where words aren't enough.


Please don't get me wrong, the physical part is an important part to be played, but having sex for the pure physical pleasure of it is the equivalent of an old man buying a Ferrari for "status" purposes. Sticking to the speed limit, never knowing the true potential of the power he possesses.
See, the mistake people(more so often guys) tend to make is that we think that as soon as its on, she's into it.

I mean no disrespect to woman at all when I say this but, expecting her to "be ready from the get go" is like jumping into your car on a cold winter morning and driving it at full throttle. Yep, it'll get you to work faster, the car will probably be fine, but you'll start questioning yourself when the car doesn't want to "go" when you expect it to after awhile.

Woman are delicate, beautiful creatures, and should be treated as such. So here are 2 very important points to remember when it come to sex:

• Much like forgiveness, sex is not for you.
• You will never master everything. If you think you have, you're a fool

It's not a race to see who gets to the mountain top first. Its about teamwork. It's about knowing what the right buttons are to push to achieve ultimate ecstasy.